Personal prerequisites to having sex with someone
Many people have special rules they must follow, due to their religious
beliefs, morals, or personal preferences before they can have sex with
someone.
No prerequisites
This is known as casual sex. You simply ask the person if he or she
wants to have sex, or signal your intent through non-verbal cues.
Blood test as a prerequisite for sex
This is a very sensible strategy. One requires that his or her potential
sexual partners be tested for AIDS and other STDs before deciding whether
or not to have sex with them. The most reliable approach is to contact
the clinic or lab directly for the test results (which requires the
person who was tested accompany you or give you written permission).
Dating as a prerequisite for sex
Many people follow the rule "no sex on the first date", implying
that you have to have more than one date in order to have sex with them.
What this actually means is that they want to get to know you first,
and if they like you well enough (or fall in love with you), then they
will have sex with you.
Falling in love as a prerequisite for sex
For many people, having sex with someone they are not in love with just
isn't any fun. For others, waiting until they've found someone they've
fallen in love it is simply their preference. It's a romantic approach.
Marriage as a prerequisite for sex
Some people believe in not having sex until they are married. Many religions
require that one wait until he or she is married before having sex.
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